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Social Comparison Bias
Interpersonal psychological effectDefinition
The tendency to evaluate yourself by comparing to others, often leading to feelings of inadequacy or superiority.
Why it happens
Humans are inherently social and use others as benchmarks. Social media amplifies this by showing curated highlights of others' lives.
Real-life examples
- Feeling inadequate after scrolling through Instagram highlight reels.
- Comparing your salary to a friend's and feeling undervalued.
- A student feeling like a failure because a classmate seems to study effortlessly.
How to counter it
- Compare yourself to your past self rather than to others.
- Curate your social media feeds to reduce highlight-reel exposure.
- Define your own personal metrics for success.
- When you catch yourself comparing, note it and redirect to your own goals.
Quick tips
- Compare yourself to your past self, not to others.
- Remember that you're seeing others' highlights, not their struggles.
- Limit social media consumption when it triggers comparison.
- Define your own metrics for success rather than adopting others'.
Sources and further reading
- A theory of social comparison processes
SAGE Publications
- Social comparison and social psychology
Cambridge University Press