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Fundamental Attribution Error
Social-cognitive biasDefinition
The tendency to attribute others' behavior to their character while attributing your own behavior to external circumstances.
Why it happens
When observing others, we focus on the person. When reflecting on ourselves, we're acutely aware of situational pressures. This asymmetry creates a double standard.
Real-life examples
- Thinking someone who cut you off in traffic is reckless, but when you do it, you were in a rush.
- Labeling a coworker as lazy when they miss a deadline, but blaming your own miss on a heavy workload.
- Judging someone as unfriendly because they didn't smile, without considering they might be having a bad day.
How to counter it
- When judging someone, list at least three situational factors that might explain their behavior.
- Apply the same empathy to others that you give yourself.
- Ask: "What would I think if I were in their shoes?"
- Default to assuming positive intent until proven otherwise.
Quick tips
- Before judging someone, ask: 'What situation might explain this behavior?'
- Apply the same empathy to others that you give yourself.
- Remember that you rarely know the full context of someone's actions.
- Practice assuming positive intent until proven otherwise.
Sources and further reading
- Toward an attributional theory of motivation in social interaction
American Psychological Association
- Cultural differences in the fundamental attribution error
American Psychological Association